Saturday, December 17, 2005



Christmas
Programs
Galore!
Last week we attended Lauren's elementary school Christmas program. It was titled: A Holiday Zoobilee. Her elementary is K-3rd grade. All the kids were up in front of the gym dressed in their holiday finest AND wearing lovely animal hats. The third graders had speaking parts and all the other children sang the songs in between. It was about a sad zookeeper that had to work on Christmas. The kids also played kazoos for one of the songs. Lauren sure does love her kazoo! This week we attended Alec's preschool program. All the 3 and 4 years olds stood at the front of our church dressed in their holiday finest as well. They sang Jingle Bells, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, Must Be Santa, Five Little Reindeer, and We Wish You A Merry Christmas. It was ADORABLE! Alec did a great job. He was singing his heart out AND remembered to do all the hand movements. I was so proud of him! Now tomorrow we go to church for the Sunday School program. I can't wait to see them both performing together this time!
Merry Christmas!

Monday, December 12, 2005


Sledding in a Winter Wonderland!

It has really snowed a LOT during the last two weeks! So this weekend we bundled up the kids, grabbed the sleds, and took them up to "the bowl" for some winter fun! The bowl is where we always went sledding as kids. It surrounds the football field. The hills are gentle (small-according to Dan) and just perfect for sledding with little kids. I knew the kids were going to have a great time. What I loved watching was how much fun DAN had! There were many giggles and plenty of snow throwing. We can hardly wait to go again!

An Ocean of a Good Time!

I am pleased to announce that our nursery is finished! Every time I walk into this room I remember how it used to be my grandma's beauty shop. There were two sinks on one wall and built in cabinets in the corner. I used to walk to her house after school and go up to the shop. I would listen to the ladies talk and gossip. It is bittersweet to see it changed. Dan worked SO hard on this room. He ripped down the plaster walls, insulated, replaced one of the windows, put in a ceiling fan, helped me paint the walls, and put up all new woodwork. Now we just wait for the little one's arrival!

Monday, November 28, 2005


Happy Halloween!

I just love Halloween. I love the decorating and the carving of pumpkins. I love to see my kids dressed up and having fun being someone/something else. This year Lauren and her dad picked out a vampire costume for her to wear. Strange, since only a week before she had told me that she wanted to be a princess...but I guess that is what happens when your dad takes you to get a costume. Alec had decided a month before Halloween that he wanted to be a dragon. I am not sure where he came up with this idea, but I figured it wouldn't be that hard to find a dragon costume. However, he did have one little request. He wanted his costume to have WINGS because he was a flying dragon. Of course. Can you find a dragon costume out there with wings? Maybe somewhere. But not anywhere I looked. So I made wings out of coat hangers, green poster board, and green metallic mesh fabric. The day begins with me taking Alec to preschool for his party. First they all lined up and went trick-or-treating to different businesses in the downtown area. They were SO cute marching up and down the street.
Alec and his best friend Alexis had to hold hands the whole time.
When the trick-or-treating was finished we marched back to the preschool to have the party. The kids played "Pin the eye on the monster" and they bowled using pumpkins. They enjoyed cookies and punch and got a treat cup filled with goodies from Mrs. Chris and Mrs. Pat. Alec was in LOVE with Halloween. He could not WAIT for his sister to come home from school so they could go trick-or-treating some more! Next on the to-do list was Lauren's class party. I signed up at the beginning of the year to be a room mother. God Bless Mrs. Patterson, knowing that I am a teacher, she decided to make me Head Room Mother. Oh dear...the pressure is on. I was actually quite impressed with how well the kids did with the games that we planned. They played "GHOST" (a Halloween version of BINGO), they bowled with pumpkins, and "Swing the Sock". They ate their delicious jack-o-lantern cupcakes (that I made!) and enjoyed black punch with ice cube worms in it. Then we helped them into their costumes. It is a Milledgeville tradition that the kids go on a parade so we all marched upstairs to the big gym to watch everyone parade in their costumes. WHEW! Now on to home to get ready for the big event...trick-or-treating! I was so tired from everything else, that I lasted about 30 minutes and then daddy had to take over. They got tons of candy...which they did not need. But isn't that what Halloween is all about?! And I can hardly wait until this new baby is big enough to get dressed up and go. THREE costumes...THREE parties...and THREE children to take trick-or-treating...life just can't get any busier than this!

Friday, October 14, 2005






Party Time!

Well last weekend was Lauren's 7th birthday. We let her open one of her gifts from us at the exact time of her birth. It is so hard to believe that we started this whole family adventure 7 years ago! I thought that it would be easier to let her have a friend party and the family party on the same day. Silly me, I thought that it would be less stressful! Umm...NO! She invited the 6 girls from her class and our next door neighbor. I planned to have it be sort of like a glamour party. My sister, Amanda, and my cousin, Courtney, came to help me. As the girls started to arrive I was directing them to coloring a birthday banner for Lauren, while Amanda was putting on nail polish and Courtney was doing their hair. After they all arrived I began putting on some eye shadow and lipstick. Now you would think that with 3 adults to only 8 little girls that it would have run smoothly...but no...we had some serious mass chaos going on! The girls who weren't getting their hair, nails, or make-up done were NOT coloring the banner. Oh no. They were running about my house getting every toy out that my children own. Did I also mention that they were climbing on top of Lauren's bunk bed and then jumping off? So I hurried and helped both Amanda and Courtney to finish up all the girls make-overs so that we could move on to the other activities that I had planned thinking that if I just had them all together in one room that they could be controlled. (What was I thinking?!) I brought them all out to the living room to play a game. I put in a princess CD and had them play "Pass the Glass Slipper". This game is similar to Hot Potato, but they passed a plastic dress-up shoe while the music played instead of a potato. Fun right?! HYPER! We played the game twice and as they got out the second time I had a prize for each of them. I had bought cute little lipstick cases that were pink or purple satin and decorated with beads. I put a plastic ring inside each one, because the lip glosses that I bought to put in them were too LONG! Just my luck. Next we moved into the dining room to decorate frames. Amanda took each girl's picture with Lauren. I had set out foam shapes, plastic jewels, letter noodles, and a few stamps and stamp pads. I had envisioned them quietly creating an amazing craft. Not so much. They were too hyper to calmly approach this activity. I had planned on this activity lasting 20-30 minutes. All but two of them were done in 15. The ones who were done early, naturally had gone back to trying to destroy my house. (Keep in mind that I was having the family party AFTER the little girls party.) OK...time for Lauren to open her presents. Back into the living room we all head. The girls grab their gifts and start shoving them at Lauren arguing about whose present she should open first. Good grief. Amanda steps up and takes charge! She tells the girls to sit around Lauren with their gift and the quietest one gets to have her present opened. WAY TO GO Amanda!! She also makes sure that Lauren takes her time with each present and takes her picture standing with the giver and the gift. (Thank heavens she came to help me!) The last thing I had planned was to give each girl a cupcake that was undecorated. I had put white frosting in muffin cups and different types of decorating confetti in the mini muffin cups. I gave each girl her own plastic knife and frosting and told them to share the confetti. I had used this idea last year and the girls had really enjoyed decorating their own cupcakes. These girls were a little different. They were throwing the candy pieces at each other. Some were not doing such a great job of sharing the different kinds of confetti with their neighbors. We gave them punch and ice cream and prayed that they would not spill on my new rug. Now in my mind all of these activities would have nicely filled up 2 hours. Unfortunately the best laid plans do not always turn out. They were done eating with 15 minutes left to spare. I thought that the best idea would be to send them to our backyard to play on the swingset. After being outside for all of 5 minutes, they had broke one of the swings AND (here's the best part) one of them had climbed all the way to the TOP of my tree. I went outside and calmly asked her to climb down before she fell out and broke her arm, while trying to find all the screws/nuts/bolts to the broken swing. I go back in the house with the broken screws thinking "This is going to be the longest 10 minutes of my life!" only to be followed by two of the girls asking if they can go back up to Lauren's room to play. I figure, what the heck, her room is already destroyed! I just tell them NOT to jump off the bunk bed. So gradually the parents come to pick up their children and I am handing out treat bags and thanking them for coming (and destroying my lovely picked up home). Time is up. Now I must make two pans of lasagna and try to tidy up my house before the family begins to arrive. Luckily the family party goes much better. By ten o'clock that night everyone has left. My house is still a disaster. I am so tired I can hardly stand up. And tomorrow I have to sing in church, make a BINGO game for Amanda's baby shower, and try to remain awake long enough to enjoy the party.....

Wednesday, October 05, 2005





It started out as a whim. Both of my grandparents recently passed away and I have always loved their house. One day Dan and I were joking around saying things like; "Wouldn't it be nice to live the small town life?" and "I could finally be a stay-at-home mom!" We were sick of the traffic. We were tired of feeling alone in an overcrowded sea of people. It is amazing how many people live in the Chicago suburbs and yet nobody expresses any interest in getting to know their neighbors. I remember what it was like to grow up in Milledgeville. A small town where everyone knew everyone (and everyone's business). I also remember how in high school my friends and I would talk about how we were going away to college and NEVER coming back. Amazingly, over the years I have discovered that Milledgeville has always been the one place that seems like home to me. Even while I lived in Decatur, Rockford, and Aurora, I always felt more connected when I went home to see my parents. So the whim turned in to a "Let's do it!"
Once the decision was made, we couldn't wait to make it happen. We did some fixing up on our house and put it on the market. The move started out gradual. I packed up all the things that the kids and I would need to survive on our own and during the first week of August we moved into my grandparents old house. I was SO excited to start remodeling! With help from my mom and my cousin Courtney, I painted the entryway, dining room, and front room during our first two weeks. Now I really do enjoy remodeling. However I learned the hard way that remodeling, while unpacking, and living in a house by yourself with 2 kids is NOT a sunshine parade. Chaos reined supreme. I had someone come in and refinish the hardwood floor in the dining room. It turned out beautiful. Unfortunately for me, being pregnant, I could not be in the house for three days due to the smell of the varnish and sealant. It is a good thing my parents live here! And I am sure they LOVED having Lauren, Alec, and I camping out in their house for those three days! (Can you sense my sarcasm?!) Next on the project list was putting in ceramic tile by the front door and having the carpet installed. But I saved the most fun thing on our to-do list for last...the bedroom that Lauren and Alec would be sharing. Yes, during the whole first month of living here, my children slept either in sleeping bags on the floor of the front room or in my bed. And on the many nights that they slept in my bed, I was sleeping on a mattress on the family room floor. Talk about fun. The reason their room took so long was due to about four layers of wallpaper and a layer of paint that had to be removed. Then we discovered that under all those layers were walls that needed some real serious patching, along with a small section of drywall that had to be replaced. Happily, I can now report that their bedroom is finally finished.
Good news! After two and a half weeks on the market, our house in Aurora sold! It was time to move all the rest of our stuff (and Dan) into our new home. Since I did all the first phase packing, I figured it was only fair to make Dan do phase two. On moving day he had help from his parents and brother. Now I should have been happy to finally have all of our things in one place. So why wasn't I? I was right back in the middle of chaos!
Well I am happy to report that after eight weeks of living here, only a handful of boxes remain. This house is finally looking like a house. We have wonderful neighbors that talk to us. Our kids play together after school. I walk to the post office or the library and people drive by and smile and wave. Our family has settled into a routine and I am beginning to be able to enjoy this first taste of being a stay-at-home mom. Now it is time to start working on the baby's room......